âYou donât know anything, daughter. How could you have your own ideas? You should listen to the adults.â Gao Fusheng knew that many young girls had thoughts about their marriage. In the end, they would realize that family conditions were the most important after living. When they could not eat a full meal, those thoughts were useless.
Gao Xiulan said, âQingmiaoâer, you should leave these things to your uncle. Your uncle has seen and knows a lot. If he said there would be no problems, it would be fine.â
Su Aiguo said, âMom, I think we should listen to younger sister. Itâs alright as long as sheâs happy. Anyway, our younger sister is still young. We can take our time to look. With three brothers in her family, we donât have to worry about no one wanting to take care of her.â
Su Aihua and Su Aidang nodded, âMom, what eldest brother said makes a lot of sense. Itâs alright to marry late.â
âGo away! What good life can you give Qingmiaoâer? Will you let her eat coarse grains and drink water? Talk big when you can give delicious food. Leave.â Gao Xiulan waved her hand away.
The three Su brothers: ââŚâ
âMom, this is an important event in my life! How could I have no opinion? I want to marry a soldier!â Su Qinghe said firmly.
This is a matter of life and death. The main point is that she did not want to find someone yet. Her life was very comfortable right now, ah. If she could live two more years like this, then she would do so. She would have a headache if she encountered a mother-in-law that was difficult to handle.
Both Gao Xiulan and Gao Fusheng froze. They did not expect Su Qinghe to have this idea.
âQingmiaoâer, why do you want to marry a soldier?â Gao Fusheng asked with a smile.
Su Qinghe immediately talked nonsense, âIsnât my father a martyr? I have always admired soldiers since I was a child. I think soldiers are very honorable. Thatâs why I thought that if I looked for a partner in the future, I would have to find a soldier. Uncle, this is an important event, so you must consider my opinion.â
Gao Xiulan sighed, âOur Qingmiaoâer is so filial. She even thought about her fatherâs affairs. However, Qingmiaoâer, itâs hard to find a soldier.â
Gao Fusheng said, âAdmiring soldiers is alright. The army and the civilians are united.â
Su Qinghe looked at Gao Fusheng and smiled, âUncle, letâs look again next time. Letâs look slowly and look for a soldier.â
Gao Fusheng frowned and recalled, âThey seemed to have said that this person went to the army.â
Su Qinghe: ââŚâ Just incredible!
When she saw that her daughter had nothing to say, Gao Xiulan asked, âBrother, regardless of whether he is a soldier or not, how is his familyâs condition? Itâs not good if they are too poor. Donât think Iâm not aware. Some people in the city do not even live better than us country people. A whole family living in a single room⌠Just the thought of it is shameful.â
âThey said heâs the youngest son of a family of cadres. How could his conditions be bad? Secretary Hao just coincidentally bumped into his sister-in-law while running errands at the county. She asked this question in passing. A lot of people in the commune are staring at this opportunity. After all, this was a family of cadres whose family members were either cadres or workers. There is no shortage of food. They just want a good-tempered daughter-in-law.â
âAiyo, our Qingmiaoâer has the best temperament!â Gao Xiulan slapped her palm happily, âBrother, you have to pay more attention to this matter and keep an eye for our Qingmiaoâer. If you need anything, tell me. Brother, this is an important life event for your niece.â
Gao Fusheng felt pressured. He was casually talking about it since the competition was big. He thought that there was no chance. If they were looking for a daughter-in-law in the countryside, itâs apparent they want someone who could work and serve their family. Their Qingmiaoâer⌠Itâs hard to say, ah.
Su Qinghe said, âUncle, weâre not in a hurry. Letâs take our time.â
Gao Xiulan immediately nodded, âYes, yes, yes. Weâre not in a hurry. Letâs look for a few more. You can help us keep an eye on this one. If we look at a few more, we can choose among them. Why do we have to look at just one?â
Su Qinghe: ââŚâ Mom, donât be so confident, okay?
Gao Fusheng felt even more pressure, âThen, Xiulan, what if this doesnât work?â
âWhy wouldnât it work out? Qingmiaoâer fits their conditions. Why wouldnât we succeed? It must mean that you donât care if it doesnât work out.â Gao Xiulan said as if it was natural.
Gao Fusheng: ââŚâ
âBrother, think about how you treated me in the past. You always followed behind eldest sister to bully us younger siblings, yet who gave you face? I tried so hard to give birth to sons. Who do you think I did it for? Wasnât it so that you and mom could stand straight? Our Qingmiaoâer knew she was a girl, so she did not dare come out. She waited until the end before coming out, which made her end up not meeting her dad. She recognizes you, her uncle. If you donât care about this matter, donât you feel guilty, ah?â
It does sound quite heartless. Gao Fusheng nodded with red eyes. He was very bad to Xiulan when he was young. Xiuhong ate all his delicious food, but Xiuhong didnât even give him face.
âOkay, okay, okay. Iâll take care of this. Letâs look for more prospects. If our Qingmiaoâer likes someone, no one would be able to snatch it from us.â Gao Fusheng patted his chest and said.
Su Qinghe was worried, âUncle, what if we donât fall in love?â Even if he was a soldier, what if he didnât match her aesthetic preferences and values? They were going to live together for a lifetime, ah.
Naturally, Gao Fusheng said, âThen we can take it slow. However, youâre almost 17 years old, we have to hurry and look quickly, or else other people will pick out the good ones.â The main thing was to arrange Qingmiaoâerâs marriage well, or else he would not be able to face his sister.
When she heard Gao Fushengâs words, Su Qinghe breathed a sigh of relief. She just had to go on a blind date. Itâs possible that they would not like her, anyway.
After sitting for a while, Gao Fusheng had to go to work at the commune. Su Qinghe said, âUncle, wait a minute. My mother prepared something for you.â
She then pulled a dazed Gao Xiulan back to her room.
âQingmiaoâer, when did I prepare something for your uncle? He doesnât lack good things. Why should we give him something?â
âMom, my uncle has to put in a lot of effort for us this time. How would he do his best if we donât give him something? Besides, we wonât lose out on this. He will give this to grandma so we can take it back the next time we go there.â
Gao Xiulan thought that her daughter was brilliant. This would return to her hands. The important point was to let her older brother take care of Qingmiaoâerâs affairs.
Very good. This reasoning was too powerful.
Gao Xiulan immediately rummaged through her urn. After searching through the urn, she could only find a few eggs. Thus, she took two eggs and some white flour and placed it in a cloth bag. She took this bag out and gave it to Gao Fusheng.
âBrother, you worked so hard to come here, but our situation at home is quite bad. Donât dislike our gift.â
Gao Fusheng immediately spoke, âWhy are you being so polite? Our sibling relationship is so good, ah. We donât have to care about this. Leave it for the children.â
âItâs alright. This is our Qingmiaoâerâs filial piety to her uncle. Brother, take it. If you donât take it, Iâll feel uneasy.â What if you donât do your best for Qingmiaoâer?
âXiulanâŚâ Gao Fusheng took the stuff, very touched. âDonât worry. Iâll take care of Qingmiaoâerâs matter and make sure that she goes to the best family.â
Gao Xiulan was extremely satisfied. Gifts definitely blind the eyes. Qingmiaoâer is thoughtful.
After Gao Fusheng left the Su family, he looked at what his sister gave him. It turned out to be white flour and eggs⌠His eyes immediately reddened.
These things were so expensive, ah. He did not know how long his sister had saved all these. Maybe even Qingmiaoâer didnât get to eat some, and she directly gave it to him.
At the old Su family.
After Gao Xiulan drove her sons and daughters-in-law, she said happily to her daughter, âQingmiaoâer, your uncle will definitely give his best this time.â
Su Qinghe said, âMom, Iâm still so young. Iâm not even allowed to get a marriage certificate yet.â
âWhat are you so afraid of? How many people in our team have obtained a certificate? Besides, we have to spread the net early. Catch a lot of big fish and look for the fattest oneâŚ.â
âGrandma, fat fish has more meat!â San Ya yelled.
Gao Xiulanâs face turned black, ââŚSilly little girl, what do you think youâre doing? Your sisters and everyone else are all working. Why are you just standing there? Go, go. Wipe the table legs and go.â She threw a rag to San Ya.
San Ya caught the rag and left them alone happily. Grandma wanted to catch fat fish for them to eat.
Su Qinghe looked at her mom, dumbfounded. Her momâs aspirations are so big, ah. So bigâŚ
If a person from this era married a person from the city, they would be so happy that they couldnât find north. However, her mom could even think of riding a donkey while looking for a horse [1].
[1] ride a donkey while looking for a horse â settle for what one has while looking for something better.
In her opinion, the city people might not even be appreciative of the environment they live in. Since they asked the secretary, they might be looking for people living in a small town.
At the old Gu family in the county town.
After eating, Elder Sister-in-law Gu and Second Sister-in-law Gu both sat around their mother-in-law.
Mother Gu looked at them, feeling annoyed. She pulled a long face, âYesterday, you told me that you were looking for Changâanâs partner. How was it?â
âMom, how could we find one so fast? Donât worry about it. We are looking for his wife carefully. When Changâan marries a wife, our father will definitely let Changâan return. Youâll be able to hold your grandson soon!â
âGranddaughter!â Mother Gu insisted.
ââŚYes, your eldest granddaughter. So, mom, weâre looking for her. We must look at a few more and show mom the best one.â Elder Sister-in-law Gu coaxed carefully.
When she heard this, Mother Gu felt that it was pretty reasonable. Her son must be able to choose from many people and select the best family.
âOur Changâan has high vision, so as his sisters-in-law, you have to look carefully. She must be better than you two.â
Elder Sister-in-law Gu and Second Sister-in-law Gu: ââŚâ
Mother Gu left the two of them and returned to her room, where she continued to look at her youngest sonâs photos. The two sisters-in-law sighed and left.
Second Sister-in-law Gu said, âI met a commune secretary yesterday and said this matter in passing. I donât know if he could find a good one. Seeing mom like this, I donât think anyone would pass in her eyes.â
âYouâre so quick to say that. What if it really doesnât work out?â Eldest Sister-in-law Gu worried.
âWhat are you so afraid of? How could he not find a wife? We just have to introduce people and let them decide. Letâs hurry up since the Third Brother will return during the Chinese New Year. This time, Dad was so cruel to Third Brother, but when Third Brother went to the army, he did not even go home to eat dinner. Iâm sure heâll be allowed to return during Chinese New Year. Thatâs why we need to look for candidates early. This way, before Third Brother comes back, things would already be settled. So, when he returns to the army, weâll try to make his wife listen to us.â
âWill Third Brother like the wife we chose?â Elder Sister-in-law Guâs head ached when she thought of her brother-in-law who was even pickier than women.
Second Sister-in-law Gu said, âLetâs find several girls and let him decide. I heard Third Brother used to say that he wants to find someone that can support him⌠Which girl from a normal family would be willing? We need to find a family that would be willing to support Third Brother. Families like this are hard to find, so we have to look and cast the net early! This way, we can catch more fish!â
âWhat about Dad? Iâm worried that Dad wonât like girls from the countryside. Yesterday, when we talked to Mom and Dad about finding a wife for Changâan, he did not give his opinion.â
âLetâs not look just for country girls, but also people from the city! After combining the two, letâs show our in-laws the advantages of country girls and the shortcomings of city girls. Besides, doesnât dad always say that workers are one family? Workers and farmers are also one family.â
Elder Sister-in-law cheered up, âYou still have a point.â
Second Sister-in-law sighed, âIsnât this because I still want to live in the future? I really donât want to invite an ancestor back homeâŚ.â
âŚâŚâŚ.
Su Qinghe was lying on the bed, chatting with the system, âSystem, since Iâm looking for soldiers⌠I canât just find them, ah. What if I find a bad one?â
âHost, be at ease. The system can provide a physical examination service for the host. This will detect the targetâs physical fitness and their performance in the army for the hostâs reference.â
Su Qinghe was slightly relieved. If the other party had good physical fitness, that would mean he was skilled. If his performance in the army was also good, then he had the motivation and a sense of responsibility.
This way, her partner wouldnât be that bad. She looked at herself again. If all the aspects were up to standard, then there wouldnât be anything unacceptable for her. If she looked for a partner in the future, she would at most look at their appearance. Who knew what their personality was?
âSystem, you have to find someone with good looks, ah. He must also be motivated and capable.â
âŚâŚâŚ
Inside the commune, Gao Fusheng sent several chi of cloth to Secretary Haoâs wife and asked Secretary Haoâs wife to help say that Su Qinghe was someone that was available in heaven and unavailable on earth [2].
[2] available in heaven and unavailable on earth â too good to be true.
âAlthough my niece is from the countryside, her three brothers love her, and her sisters-in-law are also partial to her. She does not look shabby at all. Other people are yellow and thin, but my niece is white and fat.â
Secretary Haoâs wife asked, âWhat can she do, ah?â
Gao Fusheng found that his niece does not seem to have any characteristics aside from being able to eat good food and being lazy⌠âShe can do anything!â If she doesnât, then she can learn.